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About Us

The Bear Party is a New York City-centric social club for men that operates weekly gatherings in which sex is permitted and encouraged.

We are currently the only sex party group in NYC of significant size for bears, daddies, cubs, otters, chubs, chasers and friends. We have over 20,000 active members.

We proudly welcome all types of men at our events. Obviously, you don't have to be a bear or chubby guy to attend; we love chasers and friends there to make it a good party. We cater to the average guy, and skew towards manly guys, hairy guys, chubby guys and those who love them. Because the demographic we cater to does not have to meet washboard-abs or pretty-boy standards, we do not screen attendees at the door; it's just not that kind of party. By doing this, you get a nice cross-section of New Yorkers and visitors to our city.

If you're of sound mind and body you are welcome to attend regardless of your age, weight, race, creed or any superficial attributes (including the size of your endowment). The bear-chub-chaser community is friendly and welcoming of all types. The only requirement is that you be physically and mentally fit to participate (though just watching is don't have to participate).

Joining the mailing list is the best way to stay in touch with us. You'll get 1 email a week when you're subscribed (usually on Tuesdays). Sign up here. Please also follow us on Twitter or Telegram if you prefer to stay in touch that way. 

We look forward to seeing you at one of our events soon. You do not need to RSVP for any of our events. Simply show up at the party address at the stated time and you'll find us there. If you ever have questions, sending an email to is the fastest way to get a response. We apologize, as The Bear Party does not have a telephone number; emails, however, are answered ASAP seven days a week.

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