Weekly Party Schedule: ​

  • Every Monday, Wednesday and Friday evening from 6 to 10pm (doors close at 9) on 38th Street - $27*.
  • Every Tuesday and Thursday from noon to 3pm (doors close at 2) on 38th Street - $22*.
  • Every Sunday afternoon from 1:30 to 5:30pm at Paddles in Chelsea​​ - $25*.

Plus special (non-weekly) party Saturday December 16th, which will run from 10pm to 2:30am at Paddles. $25.

* DISCOUNTED PRICE FOR GUYS WHO ARE 30 OR UNDER: $20 for all parties. You must bring state-issued or student ID showing birthdate to get the discount. Men of all ages are encouraged to attend and welcomed; we offer this discount only to entice guys who are early in their careers to attend as they have less experience and generally earn less.

UNDRESS CODE:  You must be fully naked at the Mon, Tues, Weds, Thurs and Fri parties. On Sundays at Paddles you can wear underwear, jockstraps, etc. or less. At Paddles this means no shirts and no pants. Full length underwear and undershirts are not allowed. Boxer shorts are discouraged.

Admission includes free attended clothes check, condoms and lube, clean-up supplies, some snacks & a good time with guys from the region and beyond.​

We don't publish the address of our meeting places online. Please JOIN THE GROUP to get the party address, etc. e-mailed to you. It takes a few minutes to receive the welcome e-mail containing addresses and other useful info. Avoid @me.com and @icloud.com e-mail addresses. They tend to reject our e-mails.

Please add info@bearpartynyc.com to your contacts to ensure you receive our e-mails and, for Gmail users, please move our e-mails to the primary folder from your promotions folder if you have one set up.

If you don't see your sign-up confirmation containing this information you can write info@bearpartynyc.com for help. E-mails are answered ASAP.

We do not screen attendees at the door. Everyone who is fit to participate is welcome.


The Bear Party

We are New York City's biggest and longest-running weekly erotic party / meet-up for bears, cubs, daddies, otters, chubs, chasers and friends. Clothes check required. 18 to get in.