The Bear Party

We are New York City's biggest and longest-running weekly erotic party / meet-up for bears, cubs, daddies, otters, chubs, chasers and friends. Clothes check required.

Weekly Party Schedule: ​

  • Tuesday Matinee from noon to 3pm (doors close at 2) on 38th Street - $22.
  • Wednesday evenings from 7 to 11pm (doors close at 10) on 38th Street - $27.
  • Thursday Matinee from noon to 3pm (doors close at 2) on 38th Street - $22.
  • Friday evenings from 6 to 10pm (doors close at 9) on 38th Street - $27.
  • Sunday afternoons from 1:30 to 5:30 pm at Paddles in Chelsea​​ - $25.

Special non-weekly Saturday Party:

  • April 29th 10pm to 2:30am. At Paddles in Chelsea. - $25


Admission includes free attended clothes check, condoms and lube, clean-up supplies, some snacks & a good time with guys from the region and beyond.​

We don't publish the address of our meeting places online. Please JOIN THE GROUP to get the party address, etc. e-mailed to you. It takes a few minutes to receive the welcome e-mail containing addresses and other useful info. Avoid and e-mail addresses. They tend to reject our e-mails.

Please add to your contacts to ensure you receive our e-mails and, for Gmail users, please move our e-mails to the primary folder from your promotions folder if you have one set up.

If you don't see your sign-up confirmation containing this information you can write for help. E-mails are answered ASAP.

We do not screen attendees at the door. Everyone who is fit to participate is welcome.