The Bear Party

We are New York City's biggest and longest-running weekly erotic party / meet-up for bears, cubs, daddies, otters, chubs, chasers and friends. Clothes check required.

When we meet: 

  • Wednesdays from 7 to 11pm (doors close at 10) at our Times Square location*
  • Fridays from 6pm to 10pm (doors close at 9) at our Times Square location*
  • Sundays from 1:30 to 5:30 pm at Paddles in Chelsea


  • Tuesday Matinee  from noon to 3pm (doors close at 2) at our Times Square location.* This party is for all types of guys not just the bear crowd :)

Times Square parties are nude only! The Sunday party at Paddles allows you the option of wearing underwear or going naked.

$25 admission for each party except Executive Lunch, which is $20, includes attended clothes check, condoms, lube, clean-up supplies, some snacks & a good time with guys from the region and beyond.

We don't publish the address of our meeting places online. Please JOIN THE GROUP to get the party address, etc. e-mailed to you.

Check your spam / bulk folder  (esp. AOL users) for our e-mail if you don't see your sign-up confirmation containing this information. For help write

We do not screen attendees at the door. All bears, cubs, otters, chubs, chasers, daddies, wolves, pigs, lions and tigers are welcome.